Dating can be exciting and thrilling, but it can also be frustrating and confusing. I am quoted in this article discussing a dating trend identified as “hesidating”, the act of dating with ambivalence and lack of commitment. As a couples therapist in California, I work often with people who feel anxious or avoidant in relationships, which blocks their ability to be fully vulnerable and feel connected. This creates a lack of safety and security in their relationships and often makes their partner feel rejected. Read this article to learn more about signs you are dating a “hesidater” and how to address it. Click to read the article. See if relationship counseling for individuals is right for you or contact us to get started.
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Author: Stephanie Saari
Stephanie Saari, LMFT is the founder and Clinical Director of Renewed Relationships Counseling Group — an EFT-specialized couples therapy practice in Danville, CA serving clients in person and online throughout California.
